APPRECIATION
Raising appreciative kids
Raising appreciative kids who learn to value the little things in life benefits the whole family.
This is because children who express appreciation develop a positive mindset.
Developing a positive perspective reduces anxiety, strengthens family bonds, and fosters a culture of gratitude in the home.
Appreciation is as simple as discovering the good things in life.
We realise what we are thankful for and then express that appreciation through words or actions.
For children, it could start with 'please' and 'thank you'.
Opportunities constantly arise when a parent, sibling, friend, teacher, or acquaintance asks children questions.
It's important to remember that balance and moderation are essential. Even when encouraging positive behaviour.
By teaching children to express their appreciation, you're helping them develop a healthy understanding of gratitude.
Additionally, you are not fostering a sense of entitlement.
While the words 'please' and 'thank you' can become automated and may feel insincere, it is crucial to help your children discover their gratitude and thankfulness for the relevant situation.
As a parent, you play a vital role in guiding your child's emotional development.
By helping them discover their gratitude and thankfulness for each situation, you empower them to express their appreciation authentically.
Anyone on the receiving end of their expressed authentic appreciation also feels good!
Also, this strengthens their relationships and personal well-being.
After all, that's what we want for our kids, isn't it - to have great relationships and to feel good about themselves?
When children look for the positive in people and situations they are more likely to embrace the experience and be curious about things.
Teaching children to be open-minded and curious reduces the risk of bullying, as they develop an 'acceptance' of others' differences.
Consequently when it comes to the school ground children who do not learn to appreciate and accept differences in others reject them and this could lead to bullying behaviour.
Alternatively, children who learn appreciation are curious about their friends' differences, get to sample different foods, observe different ways of living, and live different lifestyles. Sharing is the result, unity is embraced.
Appreciation may seem small, but it has a massive effect. What do you want for your child?
Trish Corbett
info@ethicalfoundations.com.au
Trish is the author of 'How to Raise Kids With Integrity - for parents, childcare educators and teachers' and blogs about a characteristic each week so that the main role models in a child's life can help children grow with self-awareness and self-confidence so they can make a positive difference in their world by recognizing and acknowledging character qualities in themselves and others. This works for adults too! Try it - sign up for a weekly email.
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